This is the story of 2 couples taking a step back from Corporate Canada life to fulfill a lifelong dream. This blog is by no means a “How To” on planning and executing a journey around the world, but rather a sharing of our experiences and feelings from 2 perspectives as we fumble our way around the world on a journey of a lifetime

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Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Our time at Good Hope Orphanage and School


Ok we have admittedly been very delinquent on our blog since we have been in Africa but I swear it’s been for good reason.  For the last month we have had the pleasure of spending all of our time getting to know and falling in love with the wonderful people at Good Hope Orphanage and School in Ngusero, Tanzania. So to catch up on blogging and fill in interested parties on what we have been up to we thought we would share some information on the organization, the people and our life here.

The story of Good Hope is a touching and heart-warming one. Unlike many of the orphanages or volunteer “organizations”  ( I use the word organization lightly because really some of these places should be called volunteer businesses since they are often started and run by international people charging over 1000$ a week to volunteer there, while nearly none of that money actually gets to those that need it……sorry I will save this rant for another time), Good Hope Orphanage and school were started by a local family that was compelled to help others in their community.

In 2005, the founder, Mama Asha found a young girl named Rayah living on the streets of Arusha. She had lost both her parents and there was no one around to care for her. With deep compassion, Mama Asha and her family took Rayah in as her own daughter. In time, Mama Asha’s daughter, Fatma, became Rayah’s foster parent. Meanwhile, Mama Asha and her family devoted their lives to establishing a full-time orphanage for other street kids in Tanzania, taking in children who lost their parents because of a disease, accident and poverty or whose parents could no longer care for them, at present there are 15 kids at Good Hope where they are provided with a stable and loving home. They receive clothes, toys, a bed each, 3 meals a day and an education, which actually is a lot more that many of the kids in the neighborhood who have both parents.  Good Hope Orphanage really is a family for these orphans and provides a stable and loving home for them

Mama Asha with Rayah
From 2005-‘10, Good Hope Orphanage used a rented house for the children, staff and volunteers to live. Thanks to many donations from around the world, Good Hope Orphanage was able to build their own house. The Good Hope Nursery and Primary School is located on the same property. The school was started 6 years ago with just 6 students and is now up to 150 students from the neighborhood. It ranges from baby class (nursery school) up to class 5 and as we speak they are building another classroom so they can go up to class 6 next year. This way the current class 5 will have somewhere to go next year to continue their education.
Current property with Mt Meru in the background
Local kids at the school
Over the course of the month we really got to know each and every one of the kids and in a short time had fallen in love with all of them.  Many, Many times I caught myself longing to have a massive house back home that I can bring them all too – but there is no way I could care for them better than they are here!

The Girls

Rachel – The youngest of the girls, is the smallest, tiniest little thing ever. Even at 6 years old she is smaller than the 4 year olds, I am pretty sure she still fits into toddler clothes. She has been there almost 2 years and speaks English quite well. She is a fearless little thing; she can watch scary movies with the boys and will attempt things on the monkey bars that used to make me cringe.

Anna – She is one of the most gorgeous little girls I have ever seen and loves to play with all the volunteers.  You can’t go one day, barely one hour without her saying “come to play, come to play”. If she sees you doing something with one of the kids you can bet that you will do it with her too!

Usthra – She was definitely the quietest of all the kids and you rarely heard a word out of her, but she loved to cuddle! You wouldn’t hear anything from her and then all of a sudden she would have her head on your leg. She also fell asleep this way all the time and would need to be carried to bed!

Nusura – One of the most fun loving of the girls who had one of the best laughs I have ever heard. She always had something positive to say! She loved to play hair saloon on me and showed me the proper way to hand wash socks.

Rayah – She was the original child for whom the orphanage was started and she clearly holds a special place in the hearts of all the founders. She is a super sweet little girl, and number one in her class!

Janet – She is both the mom and the joker of the kids group. Almost every day you could find her helping the aunties with dinner, helping clean up or helping out with the younger girls. But she also loves to joke around and pull pranks on everyone.

Prisca – She is such an amazing girl; I often had to remind myself that she is just a kid. She is probably one of the smartest kids I have ever met (also first in her class) and 100% fluent in English. She always would play translator between us and the Aunties since they only spoke Swahili. She is also funny, sweet and sensitive!

From L to R: Prisca, Rayah, Usthra, Rachel, Nusura, Anna, Janet
The Boys

Gifty – He is one of the absolutely most adorable kids I have ever met. First off he is just the cutest thing, but on top of it he is also super sweet. I swear I contemplated emptying my entire backpack so I could put him in it. He loves puzzles (and for 4 years old is really good at them), is afraid of pretty much all movies, gives big hugs and kisses, and if there is music on he WILL dance to it!

Jonny – Jonny is not actually a child at the orphanage, his mother is one of the aunties who work there, but since she is there working from 6am to 9pm 7 days a week he pretty much lives there and we got to spend as much time with him as the others. He is still working on his English and learning volunteer names so he pretty much just calls everyone teacher lol! He loves to do puzzles too, but is still figuring out to concept (i.e. not just mashing pieces together).

Freddy – He is the fasted kid ever and will beat absolutely anyone in a race.  Even though you will often catch him with what looks like a scowl on his face deep down he is a really funny kid and really lovable - even though he hates girls lol! I couldn’t convince him to give me a hug before leaving but he did cave and give me a high 5.

Mohamed – Is one of the more quiet kids, but is always up for going outside to play soccer, rugby or pretty much anything you propose. He also took our typing lesson time quite seriously and caught on crazy fast! I would also catch him being really sweet to the younger boys and definitely has some older brother qualities building in him.

Aloise – A master on the jungle gym, I nicknamed Aloise Spiderman because he could actually scale or climb anything. He also lovvvvved to do card tricks, but is still working on mastering them. He is a really sweet kid who was also just entering the “I don’t like girls” phase…..but I did convince him to give me a hug before leaving!

Living – The most positive kid on earth. Period. Spending time with Living (or In Living Colour as we liked to call him) was such a pleasure. We always had a huge smile and never would get down about anything. He is a great athlete and loves to watch movies so he was always easy to please. He also loves to make jokes…..him and Jonny were like two peas in a pod.  

Amri – One of the kids who touched my heart the most. One of the oldest of the kids there along with Swaif (both 12 years old), I found myself worrying about these guys the most because they are starting to move out of the kid stage and into teenager stage so puzzles, colouring and games just don’t do the trick with these guys. Especially Amri, he is the introverted, but really sweet kind of kid. I loved spending 1 on 1 time with him.

Swaif – Full of personality and wicked smart as well (number 2 in his class), he was also tonnes of fun to spend time with. He likes to give the volunteers a hard time when they take off for the weekend and would give me the silent treatment of I was out too long during the day, but he always came around!

From L to R: Jonny, Living, Amri, Mohamed, Freddy, Gifty, Swaif, Aloise
The Aunties & Ally

Bibi Jamila – She lives at the orphanage full-time and her primary responsibility is to care of the children. She gets them ready in the morning/evening, and helps with the preparation and cooking of the meals.

Auntie Fatuma & Ma-Jonny - The aunties’ primary responsibilities are to take care of the Orphanage. They do orphanage duties every day and ensure that the Orphanage is running smoothly. They leave around 9pm and return around 6 am, working countless hours to ensure a stable home for the kids

Ma-Jonny, Fatuma and Bibi
Ally – Mama Asha’s son and all around AMAZING person with the biggest heart. As Good Hope Orphanage coordinator, he organizes and supports volunteers, handles donations and assists volunteers with planning fundraising events.

Jonny and I with Ally on our very last day at Good Hope
During our time at Good Hope when we weren't hanging out with the kids, aunts and other volunteers, Jonny helped out with some construction work that needed to be done on the medical center, sanding and painting mostly, and I helped out around the school.  I regularly taught French to class 3 and class 5.  I learned that I would make a TERRIBLE teacher haha……but the kids were great (most of the time) so that made it a lot better!

Inside a school assembly
Jonny scrapping away some vandalism 
Last day with my Class 5 French students

In addition to helping out at the school and at the medical center we also did a lot of activities with the kids and other volunteers. We took them to the movies to see Batman, went out for pop and chips Mayai (this amazing African dish that is basically an omelette with French fries cooked into it – GENIUS) and organized a weekend of Good Hope “Olympics” filled with games, medals and prizes. We also enjoyed many a days just hanging out on the playground and cuddling up for movie nights in the kids’ room.

Jonny goofing off with Gifty
Playing in the play ground
Kicking off the Good Hope Olympics
Boys 100m Race

Nusura taking the lead of the spoon/ball race
While we were staying at the orphanage we also got to check out lots of Arusha and even had the chance to hit the town a few nights for a couple Tuskers (an African beer brand) with some other volunteers and local friends we made through Good Hope. We even took in some African line dancing…..seriously I said line dancing. It is much like regular western line dancing but with a bit for style and rhythm haha.

The experience of volunteering at Good Hope is whatever you make of it. There is no “to do” list for volunteers telling you what you should be doing every day, but whatever you put into your time here, you will definitely get back 10-fold.  A lot of times we felt guilty because we felt like we were getting so much more from our time here with the kids then we actually gave. Saying goodbye to the kids after more than a month with them was really hard (yes I did shed tears…..how could I not!), but this definitely will not be our last dealings with Good Hope, these kids are in our lives now and we will hopefully get to stay in theirs.  Our time at Good Hope was amazing, fun and incredibly fulfilling, but mostly getting to meet these kids and the people who started and run this organization really showed us what it is like to give back to your own community. This is a family, and a group of people, in a place where no one really has “extra” means or resources who used whatever they had to give back to these kids and give them more than just food, shelter and clothes, but give them opportunity for the future. 

If you are interested in finding out more about Good Hope just drop us a line or check out their website directly http://www.goodhopeorphanage.org/

OOO_Talia and Jonny

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