This is the story of 2 couples taking a step back from Corporate Canada life to fulfill a lifelong dream. This blog is by no means a “How To” on planning and executing a journey around the world, but rather a sharing of our experiences and feelings from 2 perspectives as we fumble our way around the world on a journey of a lifetime

"Life begins at the end of your comfort Zone" - Neale Donald Walsch

Saturday, October 27, 2012

Sunny Zanzibar, Tanzania

After nearly two months loving Tanzania we have barely scratched the surface of this amazing country, let alone Africa. Our time here as been absolutely incredible and like no other experience we have had yet on this trip. The landscape and once in a lifetime type experiences like climbing Mtn Kilimanjaro and cruising the  Serengeti were amazing, but what has really left a lifetime imprint on us is the people we have met here.

We know this is not the only time we will spend wandering this amazing area, in fact we have already made a pact to ourselves to try and get back here within 3 years. Since we had spent the better part of our time here exploring the more "rural" side of Tanzania, we decided that we would spend our last few days seeing another side....... the beach! 

Zanzibar is a semi-autonomous group of islands off of mainland Tanzania and features all kinds of wonderful things to do, spice tours, boat tours, snorkeling, etc........we decided to spend out few days engaging in our favorite pastime - beaching and watching sunsets. We were ready for the extreme relaxation. We spent our time between the exotic beaches on the northern end of the island and a few days in Stone town exploring the Arabic influenced architecture and culture, and dining at one of the best night food markets we have come across in a long time! 

The only downfall with Zanzibar is the ferry required to get there, which have a tendency be really rough and occasionally sink. Luckily for us sinking did not happen, but our return journey to Dar Es Salaam was so rough that they passed around much needed (and widely used) puke bags. I was never more happy to be in Dar Es Salaam as the moment our ferry docked!

Here are a few pics to help us all daydream!

Boat under construction
Ladies farming seaweed
Endless white sand and aqua water

Sunset soccer
One of many amazing sunsets
View from Zanzibar hotel
Sunset sail
Beach beers

Jason jumping into a game of volleyball
Strolling in Stonetown
Spying in Stonetown
OOO_Talia and Jonny

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Revelations in Rwanda


So far, Tanzania has really been a trip.

We started off heavy with both a fun and emotional roller-coaster at the orphanage. Then pretended to be fit and climb Kilimanjaro. Then hit the tourist safari trail, experiencing some very surreal moments and countless African Massages (that’s when the road is so bad that you bounce up and down, side to side so much and so hard that it “massages” your back and neck).

Now…. Its about to get heavy again. We had no idea what to expect in Rwanda.

Most people know the history. If you don’t then you should get yourself informed.  You may have seen Hotel Rwanda which is an okay start. If that is the extent of your Rwandan Genocide knowledge base I would recommend picking up Shake Hands with the Devil.

Anyhow….. The movie certainly didn’t prepare us for what we were about to see. Both in the positive and negatives found in Rwanda today.

18 years ago (1994) one of the biggest genocides since WW2 occurred seeing 1M+ Rwandan Tutsi’s exterminated over 4 months, 800,000 of which occurred in just one month and hundreds of thousands more displaced throughout Eastern Africa in various refugee camps. That was over 10% of the population killed, another 50% of the population fled as refugees to then Zaire (now Congo), Tanzania and Kenya and the rest of the country traumatized. After the Genocide there was basically zero infrastructure left and no semblance of gov’t in control. In 1994 Rwanda was quite literally dead.  

The absolute cruelty with which these atrocities were carried out is so sickening that it actually is unfathomable. The genocide was carried out in this country right out in the open, hate messages and calls to kill were blasted across the radio stations and killing came all the way from the highest echelons of the government all the way to neighbors massacring their neighbors, many of whom they were friends with for years, there are even many documented cases of priests killing (and sanctioning the killing) of members of their parish.  The reaction from the western world powers (or lack of reaction is more like it) it a whole other disappointing story.

I won’t use our blog as a history lesson or sounding board for all of our thoughts and opinions on the genocide, but if you know anything about it, it’s not far off to think it is something a country, and more importantly the people of the country, could ever recover from.

Fast forward 18 years and 8 months, Tals, Jason and I land in the capital city of Kigali with no clue what to expect.

For some background, most of east Africa is just a different planet. Plain and simple.  To generalize a bit, there are no roads…. Hell, there are no rules aside from the unwritten ones that society seems to create. Don’t get me wrong, the people we became involved with were kind, grounded, inspiring and very ethical. They are great people. They just have to get by in a way first world countries have a hard time figuring out.

Landing in Kigali, much to our surprise, taxi’s had signs and meters and harsh penalties for those caught not wearing their seat belts. Buses had schedules, real stops and seat limits. Roads were actual paved roads and (to speed this up) people weren’t burning garbage on the street. Instead, they use bins and take off one Sunday a month to clean up their community. You almost did not even feel like you were in a 3rd world country anymore.

The people in Kigali were magic. There was this sense of unity among the youth as the future leaders (which is more than half the population). There was this sense of oneness regarding Rwanda’s future; this idea that if your educated (about the past/present/future) and you’re positive, Rwanda will thrive.
Experiencing the genocide memorials museums was heavy and informative. The locals….. Man… they are an inspiring group of people.

Aside from the education aspect of Rwanda’s history, Kigali is also a promising up and coming city. Little pockets of cafes and nightlife spots are popping up by the hundreds. Art communities and theatre are being introduced. In fact we even took in Rwanda’s very first musical. It was no Broadway production by any means but it was inspiring to watch this little art community start to flourish.

If Rwanda isn’t on your list already... ADD IT. It won’t let you down. Its people will make sure of it.

Here are a couple of don’t miss spots to see while you are in Rwanda:

Kigali Genocide Memorial:

Opened on the 10 year anniversary of the Genocide, the memorial serves as a reminder of the horrible events that rocked this country less than 20 years ago. “The Centre provided an opportunity to offer a place in which the bereaved could bury their families and friends, and over 250,000 victims of the genocide are now buried at the site - a clear reminder of the cost of ignorance” (credit to memorial website

It is an incredibly heavy place to visit but you would not be doing justice to the history of this country or to yourself if you did not visit. The memorial is set up with 3 sections; 1 with the history of the Rwandan Genocide, 1 educating on some of the biggest genocides across the world (at least 6 included in the exhibit) and finally the most heart wrenching of all the Rwandan Genocide children’s exhibit. In the children’s exhibit they have photos of just some of the children killed during the genocide including their age, favorite food/drink, last words for some and method of death.


Murambi Genocide Memorial:

When the genocide started this site was in development to be a Technical college and when 60,000 + Rwanda Tutsis from the area tried to hide in their local church the towns bishop and mayor lured them into a trap by sending them to the technical school, claiming that French troops would protect them there. Once they were hiding in the school located perched on top of a hill (with no escape), the water and electricity was cut off. Once the people were too weak to resist, they were massacred, some were shot but most were massacred with machetes. 45,000 were killed in one day and most of the ones who were able to escape were killed the next day while trying to hide in a church. Nearing the end of the genocide when the French troops did actually come into the area, the French brought in heavy equipment to dig several pits where many thousands of bodies were placed. They then placed a volleyball court over the mass graves in an attempt to hide what happened according to the guides at the memorial.

This memorial is definitely not for the faint of heart, just know the history of what happened on this exact grounds is heartbreaking, but to really make the travesty of events real they have over 800 bodies temporarily preserved and currently displayed in the school from adults to babies. You can see on the corpse when machetes had hacked off limbs and sliced open skulls. The true horror of these events really hit home at this memorial.
**Due to the graphic and very sensitive nature of this memorial we did not take any photos

Hotel Des Milles Collines: (or better known as the Hotel Rwanda…which the movie is based on)

Now completely restored to its luxury 4 star glory, this hotel was once the last refuge for Rwandans trying to escape genocide. About 1000 people escaped death quite literally by hours thanks to Paul Rusesabagina who bribed the Hutu Interahamwe militia with money and alcohol to keep them from killing the refugees in the hotel as long as possible until the rebel army captured the capital and the refugees were able to escape.  

It’s quite surreal to sit out by the pool bar sipping on beer and wine in this incredibly modern, luxurious hotel knowing the history of what happened in this very spot.




 On the lighter side….

Uburanga Arts Studio:

Started in March 2012 by Jean Bosco Bakunzi, the studio is home to 11 artists who produce colourful paintings and sculptures in an attempt to push Rwanda’s art scene forward. The colourful, uplifting art is displayed in an open, beautiful garden and the artists’ super friendly and welcoming. We stopped by to watch them work for a bit and just hang out with them in the garden.





African Bagel Company:

YES they sell REAL BAGELS HERE! It was amazing, for people who have been bagel deprived for months and months now, we were able to feast on amazing, homemade bagels and cream cheese and just linger around in the back garden for a while.  It’s tucked away on a middle of nowhere side street somewhere but it is so worth the hunt.

It’s also a place that offers skills training (in baking, problem solving, customer service business etc.) to vulnerable women so that, eventually, they’re able to take on all of the tasks required to run the business. The goal is to have these women eventually opening their own businesses using their new skills or employing them to teach others. Delicious and for a good cause!!




Off the Zanzibar to close out our time in Africa.

OOO_Jonny and Talia

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Animal Kingdom African Safari, Tanzania


***We are very behind on blogging but starting to catch up! this safari actually look place in August :) 

Day 1:

John, our driver/guide and Jacob our cook for the next few days pick us up at out Good Hope to begin our trip to get up close and personal with some African Wildlife. After a very quick stop to pick up some snacks we were off to park #1 – Tarangire National Park. Within minutes of entering the park we had our first animal sighting, African Elephants, a whole family of them, including the baby.  Tarangire is very well known for elephants so we were lucky enough the see hundreds of them.

Mama and Baby elephant
The whole fam
Elephant crossing the road
On top of elephants we were up close and personal with loads of zebras and wildebeests, who apparently are best buddies. Zebras are not good at smelling out water sources or predators, a strong suit of the wildebeest, but can see forever a trait that the wildebeest lack so they often hang out together. To round out the day were gazelles, impalas, giraffes, monkeys, baboons, lazy lions out in the crazy, a cheetah taking an afternoon siesta, even a jackal and a warthog.  After a long day in the park we headed to a place called Mosquito River (unfortunate name) to camp for the night and have our first of many unreal meals prepared by Jacob.

Cuddling zebras
Overlooking Tarangire
Baboons in tree
Giraffe eating lunch
Day 2:

On day 2 we made our way to the uber famous Serengeti national park. The Serengeti is an incredibly diverse ecosystem in northern Tanzania which meets up with the Maasai Mara Reserve in Kenya to the north. It is home to over 70 mammals and 500 other species but is made most famous for the massive wildebeest migration (the largest mammal migration on earth – thank you Wikipedia) where over 1.2 million wildebeest, nearly a million zebra, among other game migrate from the Serengeti to Maasai Mara reserve and back annually.

Our day started out a bit slow when we first arrived in the Serengeti and it seemed that our luck with animals had run out. We went for a long time seeing only gazelles and impala’s and a handful of elephants. Finally we stumbled upon a mama lion literally right beside us. She paid zero attention to us because we caught her just as she was stalking a group of gazelles.  We followed her for a while before we finally got the witness the holy grail of safari sights – a lion kill. She pounced on the group and scored herself a gazelle for dinner. We didn't really get to watch her feast of her prize since she made her kill out in the long grass, but we could see her wagging her tail up in the air as we enjoyed her 
dinner.
Thompson gazelle

Old man elephant
Focused lion stalking her prey
After watching mama lion do her work we cruised around for a few more hours enjoyed the scenery and catching a few more animals, including a leopard taking a nap in a tree, before making our way to camp.
Leopard waking up 
Never ending views in Serengeti
Day 3:

On day three we headed out really early for a morning game drive to catch all the animals during their busy morning routines. We hit the road before the sun came up over the park and got to see a whole pride of lions before the sun even came up. A little while later we found another pride that looked like they were on the hunt.  After an hour or so on the road, and a very lively morning animal kingdom we caught the most incredible sunrise over the Serengeti. We toured around the Serengeti for the rest of the day just taking in the sights all around us and added hippo, buffalo and crocodile sightings to our growing list of species seen on this safari and then we made the 3 hour trip to Ngorogoro crater where we camped for the night.

Stalking her prey?
Amazing sunrise 
Vulture perched in his tree
Baboon waking up
Crocodile sneaking up on a baboon 
Hippos splashing around 
Getting fiesty
Enjoying some shade
Day 4:

Our last stop of this tour is Ngorogoro crater, home to all the “Big Five” animals; Rhinos, elephants, lions, leopards and buffalo. It is the last place on earth where the Black Rhino lives and due to aggressive poachers there are only 29 remaining – horrible. We actually we lucky enough to see one …..but only as a tiny spec in a pair of binoculars.
We hit the road early again in the crater and as a result we caught all kinds of animals going about their business, including a mother/father ostrich duo fiercely protecting their eggs from a hungry hyena. Luckily ostrich are way smarter than they look and Hyenas are really stupid. Eggs saved.
Male chasing away the jackal.....
.....while female protects eggs.
Some highlights from the crater were all kinds of wildebeest and zebras hanging around that had not yet made the migration and one of the highest densities of lions anywhere. We even had to stay put for a bit while a female lion took refuge from the sun in the shade of our Jeep, resting right on it. After a late lunch in the park we slowly made our way out of the crater and back to Arusha where sadly said goodbye to our crew for the trip John (the human safari encyclopedia) and Jacob, camping cook extraordinaire.

gorgeous birds in the crater
Zebras and wildebeests
Male lion 
Close enough???
Zebras crossing the road
Excited male Hyena......look closely
Amazing views of the crater
Saying goodbye to our crew 


OOO_Talia and Jonny